The Art Behind the Willing Horse

In a world filled with countless forms of artistry, there is one that often goes unnoticed—the artistry behind the willing horse. These majestic creatures possess a profound ability to connect with humans on a deeper level, fostering understanding, compassion, and hope. In this blog post, we will delve into the captivating world of Equine artistry and explore the transformative power it holds for both horses and humans alike.

Unveiling the Equine Connection:

To truly comprehend the artistry of the Equine, one must witness the bond between horses and humans firsthand. It is an indescribable connection that transcends language and logic, touching the core of our being. When we engage with horses, we enter a realm of empathy, trust, and vulnerability. Through their gentle presence and intuitive understanding, horses offer solace and support, creating a safe space where humans can be their authentic selves

Compassion in Motion:

At the heart of Equine artistry lies compassion in action. Horses possess an innate ability to sense our emotions and respond with unwavering empathy. They can read our body language, decipher our intentions, and mirror our innermost feelings. This profound understanding allows them to offer comfort during times of distress, heal emotional wounds, and ignite a flame of hope within us. Through their presence, horses remind us of the importance of compassion, both towards ourselves and others.

The Healing Power of Equine Artistry:

Equine-assisted therapy has gained recognition as a powerful healing modality. Whether it's for individuals struggling with mental health issues, trauma survivors, or those seeking personal growth, the therapeutic benefits of working with horses are unparalleled. Through various activities such as grooming, leading, and riding, individuals can experience increased self-awareness, improved communication skills, and enhanced emotional regulation. The artistry of the Equine becomes a catalyst for personal transformation, fostering resilience, and nurturing a sense of inner peace.

Igniting Hope:

In a world often plagued by uncertainty and turmoil, horses serve as beacons of hope. Their presence reminds us of the resilience and beauty that can be found in even the most challenging circumstances. Horses inspire us to push beyond our limitations, to believe in our own strength, and to never lose sight of our dreams. The artistry of the Equine becomes a source of motivation and encouragement, propelling us forward on our journey towards personal growth and fulfilment.

Harmony with Horses:

To truly embrace the artistry of Equine connection, we must strive for harmony with these magnificent creatures. It is essential to approach horses with respect, patience, and a willingness to listen. Building a relationship based on trust and understanding requires time and effort, but the rewards are immeasurable. As we learn to communicate effectively with horses, we also learn to better communicate with ourselves and the world around us. The artistry of Equine connection becomes a powerful metaphor for building harmonious relationships with all living beings.

Final Note:

The artistry behind the willing Equine holds a profound significance in our lives. It serves as a reminder of the transformative power of connection, compassion, and hope. Through their gentle presence, horses invite us to explore the depths of our emotions, heal our wounds, and embrace our true selves. Let us cherish and celebrate the artistry of Equine connection, recognizing its ability to ignite hope, foster empathy, and reveal the true essence of the human spirit.
Watch this inspiring video that beautifully captures the essence of Equine artistry and its impact on horses and humans alike. Let it serve as a reminder of the remarkable bond that exists between these magnificent creatures and ourselves. Together, we can embrace the artistry of Equine connection and create a world filled with understanding, compassion, and hope.

Focusing on the “space between”

The “space between” is the space the horse needs to process, understand and choose how to respond.

The “space between” is the difference between a response and a reaction.

Without that space, we are activating a nervous system response which is a defensive mechanism (fight/ flight/ freeze/ fawn), and then trying to control that behaviour. 

We, as riders, need that “space between” too.

A great trick when you can feel your horse tense and it makes you nervous about the coming implosion is to hum.

Humming is an easy and quick way to hack our nervous system by stimulating the vagus nerve and down-regulating without trying to control our fear. And when we down-regulate our nervous system response, our horse will respond in kind.

A note on riding with fear:

Fear locks down on our sacro-lumbar area and hollows our back into an anterior pelvic tilt. The same happens with the horse. 

Just relaxing and softening your lower back, especially with an out breath, you can stimulate the tension to drop out of the horse's back. So just relaxing and softening the lower back can relax a hot anxious horse but a tense hollow lower back can escalate an already hot anxious horse. 

Are you riding with fear?

What does respect look like in horse training?

Respect forms the foundation of our interactions with horses within the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology.

It encompasses understanding equine behaviour, honouring boundaries, empathising with their needs, maintaining clear communication, and fostering trust. In this essay, we embark on a journey to unpack the concept of respect and its profound significance in establishing a harmonious and trusting relationship with our equine partners.

Understanding Equine Behavior and Needs:

To cultivate respect, a deep understanding of equine behaviour is essential. Horses are prey animals with unique instincts and social dynamics. By studying their natural behaviours, such as body language, herd dynamics, and communication methods, we gain invaluable insights into their needs and preferences. This knowledge empowers us to adapt our training methods and interactions to align with their innate nature, creating an environment that honours their instincts and allows them to thrive.

Respecting Boundaries - A Foundation of Trust:

Respect in horse handling revolves around recognizing and respecting the boundaries of our equine partners. Every horse possesses a personal space and comfort zone, and it is vital to be mindful of these boundaries. By keenly observing their body language and responses, we ensure that we do not invade or push beyond their comfort levels. Respecting their boundaries establishes trust, fosters a felt sense of safety, and lays the groundwork for a cooperative and respectful partnership.

Empathy and Sensitivity- Connecting on a Deeper Level:

Respect flourishes through empathy and sensitivity towards the emotions and physical well-being of horses. These perceptive creatures can discern our intentions and emotions, making it crucial to approach them with empathy. By understanding their needs, fears, and concerns and responding to them with compassion and kindness, we create an environment of mutual respect. This level of empathy deepens the connection between horse and handler and strengthens the bond of trust.

Clear and Consistent Communication - The Language of Respect:

Effective horse handling requires clear and consistent communication. Horses rely on precise cues and signals to understand what is expected of them. By providing consistent communication, we eliminate confusion and reduce stress for the horse. This clarity establishes a sense of respect as the horse comprehends our intentions and can respond appropriately. Clear communication bridges the gap between human and equine, fostering understanding and cooperation.

Positive Reinforcement - Nurturing Trust and Cooperation:

Respectful training methods prioritise positive reinforcement over force or coercion. By rewarding desired behaviours and creating a positive learning environment, we motivate horses to willingly participate in our training sessions. Positive reinforcement builds trust, strengthens the horse-human bond, and cultivates respect through a partnership based on mutual understanding and cooperation. This approach not only produces effective results but also nurtures a relationship founded on trust and respect.

Inside the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, respect permeates every aspect of our interactions with horses. By understanding equine behaviour, honouring boundaries, practising empathy and sensitivity, maintaining clear communication, and prioritising positive reinforcement, we foster a strong and trusting relationship with our equine partners. Through continuous learning and a commitment to compassionate and mindful handling, we deepen our understanding of respect and forge an unbreakable bond. Let us embark on this enlightening journey of respect in holistic horse handling, honouring the magnificent creatures that grace our lives with their presence.

Ask yourself not if your horse respects you but why your horse would have respect for you and how you lead through example.

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The Quirky Code: Deciphering Why Your Horse Plays Headbutt

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your horse seems to have a sudden penchant for headbutting you? Well, you're not alone in this peculiar equine mystery.

We've received numerous queries from perplexed horse owners, trying to decode the curious behaviour of their four-legged companions. So, saddle up as we embark on a journey to demystify the enigma behind the headbutt.

Picture this: you're minding your own business, enjoying a serene moment with your horse, when suddenly, a gentle thud on your shoulder or a nudge to your side interrupts your tranquillity. You're left baffled, perhaps even annoyed, by your horse's newfound hobby. But hold your horses (pun definitly intended) before you jump to conclusions!

First things first, let's dispel the notion that your horse has secretly enrolled in a headbutting competition. Contrary to popular belief, headbutting isn't necessarily an act of rebellion or "naughtiness." In fact, it's crucial to recognize that horses don't come with a handbook on human etiquette. So, before you don your frustration hat, consider diving into the horse's mind.

Horses, like humans, have their own way of communicating. And guess what? Headbutting is just one of their many forms of expression. Rather than viewing it as a hostile act, try interpreting it as a quirky attempt at starting a conversation.

Imagine your horse is raising its hoof and saying, "Hey, human, let's talk!" Now that's a conversation starter like no other!

But let's not get carried away with the romanticised idea of equine conversation. While your horse might not be scheming a headbutt masterplan, there are still underlying reasons for this behaviour. One possibility is affection. Just as a cat might nuzzle against your hand, your horse might nudge you for some tender loving care. It's their way of saying, "I appreciate you, buddy!"

It is ok for you to say to your horse if their head butting and rubbing is too rough. You are allowed to set boundaries by asking them to stop or be more gentle. But we don’t want to punish them for attempting to seek connection and break down those walls. When your horse feels safe with you and enjoys your company, they will do that with physical contact. For some horses, it's harder to get to that point than others. We want them to give us permission to be in their space and bubble. Why would you want someone in your bubble?

So, what's the golden rule when faced with a headbutting horse?

Patience, patience, patience.

Reacting with anger or punishment could lead to confusion and distrust. Instead, be the bigger (and wiser) mammal. Gently redirect the behaviour into another way to connect. One way we redirect rougher headbutting within the Holistic Horse Handling Program is to invite the horse to lick our hand instead. If the headbutt is a result of their face being sweaty from the bridle, I’ll give their face a good scratch. Other times they want their forehand rubbed (although not all horses like this one).

In the grand tapestry of horse-human relationships, decoding the headbutt puzzle is just one of the many threads. Each horse comes with its quirks, just as we humans do. So, the next time your equine companion decides to give you a friendly nudge, think twice before labeling it as "naughty." After all, a little headbutt might just be their way of including you in their inner circle of trust.

So, the next time your horse initiates a tête-à-tête with a headbutt, embrace the conversation with an open heart and a pocketful of treats. Happy bonding!

What's the best way to desensitise a horse?

Do you want to know the one of the best way to desensitise a horse?

Kids! Kids doing weird and unpredictable things makes horses OK with weird and unpredictable things happening.

You know what a horse's biggest fear is? Weird and unpredictable things.

You know the worst way to desensitise a horse? The predictable human intentionally trying to scare a horse and then punishing the horse for being scared. This hands down triggers the horse’s survival instinct and if they don't decide to fight, the only option they have is to dissociate. To mentally check out of their body.

This is not a safe horse.

That’s why within the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, we focus on Confidence Through Curiosity, so we can remain a consistently Compassionate Leader, but help the horse build it’s own confidence (and confidence in us) when things get a little less predictable

Interested in learning about confidence through curiosity? check out the teaching curiosity course, specifically suited for flighty and spooky horses!

Is your horse working with tension?

"All the interventions in the world can't help hour horse if it is working with tension"

How to develop sound, athletic horses so that our horses can express themselves through movement and ask to be ridden... It all starts with the development of the rider. Their feel, eye and sensitivity.

There are multiple reasons for the horse to hold tension that can develop into irregularity of stride and soundness issues, behavioural issues like bucking, bolting and rearing or even just lacking forwardness, jacking up and working hollow and strung out. The way forward is a refinement of what we already know.

🐴🐴The foundations 🐴🐴

The foundations are 100% necessary to unblock tension.

🐴Tension from fear, including lack of psychology safety to be themselves and lack of trust in their riders choices.

🐴Tension from the application of pressure, both bit and bridle.

🐴Tension from lack of balance to move into the movements with relaxation and swing.

🐴Mental tension from the effort spent on the exercises.

As riders setting our horses up for success, we need to have an intricate understanding of how to build our horses confidence in themselves, us and our choices for them, the bit and our communication (how to answer the question correctly), carrying us and performing with task with mental and emotional relaxation. This can be challenging, complex and overwhelming. But more importantly, it is incredibly rewarding.

Nurturing Connection: Exploring the Power of Acceptance of Contact in Horses

Acceptance of contact serves as the cornerstone of a harmonious relationship between a horse and rider.

It encompasses the horse's willingness to seek the bit and engage in the bit pressure as a direct line of communication with the rider.

This principle holds great significance in establishing trust, balance, and a strong connection.

At its essence, acceptance of contact reflects the horse's understanding and confidence in the riders hands. What would your hands have to feel like for your horse to confidently seek it to communicate with you? What would it take for your horse to relax into your hands and not brace against them? To engage and seek direction from your hands without physical and mental resistance? This is the question we need to ask ourselves when working under saddle with our horses. This mutual understanding between horse and rider lays the foundation for clear communication, precise cues, and a unified partnership.

When a horse willingly and with congruence accepts and relaxes into contact, it symbolizes their trust and confidence in the rider. It signifies a bond built on respect, trust, and a shared language of communication. This trust allows the horse to find a relaxed and balanced frame, facilitating efficient movement and enabling the rider's aids to flow seamlessly.

When we lack confidence in our hands our horse locks its jaw (or opens its mouth) and braces its neck creating the most common forms of resistance and evasion:

Jacking up and refusing to move or rearing

Bucking out into canter in particular

False frame where they tuck behind the bit instead of working into the bit creating long term damage to their body.

Twisting and rotating the pelvis or working with false engagement (an anterior tilt of the pelvis)

Not only do all this problems manifest in physical pain (your bodyworker is out more the 4 times a year and always treating the same issue) but it also plateaus your training. When you don’t have congruent acceptance of the contact your horse will struggle to move up the training scale. If they are not using their body functionally at the foundation level it will only get worse as you ask more of them.

Developing acceptance of contact requires patience, time, and a systematic approach. It commences with the establishment of a solid foundation through groundwork and basic training, where the horse learns to respond to light cues and seek pressure for communication and guidance. As the horse progresses, the rider can gradually introduce and refine the concept of contact under saddle.

It is essential for riders to find a delicate balance between seeking acceptance of contact and honoring the horse's individual needs and comfort. Each horse is unique, and their response to contact may vary. Riders must attentively listen to their horse's feedback, adapt their aids accordingly, and find a harmonious equilibrium that promotes relaxation, suppleness, and willingness.

In our enlightening video discussion, we delve deep into the theory and practical application of acceptance of contact. We explore diverse training techniques, exercises, and cues that can help riders cultivate acceptance of contact in their horses. By immersing yourself in the video, you will gain valuable insights and tangible tools to enhance your equestrian partnership.

The concept of acceptance of contact holds transformative power in nurturing a profound connection between horse and rider. It encompasses the horse's willingness to seek and respond to the rider's aids, forging a bond built on trust, respect, and effective communication. By prioritizing clarity, sensitivity, and understanding, riders can establish a solid foundation of trust and balance. Join us in the video discussion to deepen your understanding of acceptance of contact and unlock the true potential of your equestrian partnership.

Teach your horse "respect"

Teach your horse respect...

There is a whole subset of the population that doesn't understand what this means.

The best way to teach is by modelling and the best way to teach respect isn't by demanding it but how you model respect for yourself and others.

🐴It's lead by example

🐴It's treat others as you would like to be treated.

How many of these things have been taught as a child and we've tried to live by them and learnt others weren't playing by those rules and so adapted our own coping mechanisms.

These behaviours modelled in a safe, cohesive herd are rules to live by for safe, co-regulated relationships.

But it's been trained out of us by life and people. It's hard to live in this world and play by those rules. So we learn new ways to throw the power dynamic. And then act surprised when it doesn't work on horses or our horse is acting out.

Teach your horse respect... but earn it first.

Achieving Harmony and Safety: The Power of Training for Relaxation with Your Horse.

Welcome to our blog, where we delve into the realm of equestrianism to shed light on the importance of training horses for relaxation rather than submission. In this post, we will explore how prioritizing the well-being of your equine partner can lead to a safe and fulfilling experience. To further enhance your understanding, we invite you to watch an insightful YouTube video titled "Are you training unwanted behaviours into or out of your horse”.

One of the mistakes most riders make is confusing softening for submission to a pressure release aid instead of relaxation into the aid/being given permission from our horse to apply the aid. If you can imagine if you had for example a halter on your head with someone telling you what to do by the application of it, you can start to see why we need to take into consideration how we use our aversives so that the horse not only accepts the application but also confidently seeks it for direction. We need to recognize that whether the horse is relaxing in to and seeking pressure for direction versus bracing against the application of the pressure can yield remarkable benefits for both rider and horse. By embracing the principle of training for relaxation, we establish a foundation of trust and mutual understanding, creating an environment in which our equine companions genuinely look after us.

When we prioritize relaxation, we encourage our horses to see us as reliable leaders. This fosters a bond of trust, wherein our horses feel secure and protected in our presence. By avoiding dominance-based training methods and emphasizing effective communication, we cultivate an atmosphere of cooperation, instead of demanding submission.

A relaxed horse is a receptive learner. By instilling a sense of calm and composure, we enable our horses to be more open to new experiences and less prone to spooky, flighty and reactive behaviours. This state of relaxation allows our horse to learn and seek answers in the training sessions. When we trigger reactive behaviours to condition through pressure release the horse is in the wrong part of their brain to learn and problem solve so even though they may figure out the answer in this training session when you go to teach the next new thing it can be like starting from scratch again. Whereas focusing on relaxation in training and congruent engagement results in accelerated progress when learning new skills or refining existing ones because we create a scaffolding in our foundations that allows us to layer the new skills in on top without having to start over.

Moreover, a relaxed horse tends to be more responsive and less reactive, both on the ground and under saddle. By training for relaxation, we empower our horses to develop emotional agility skills, thereby reducing the risk of accidents or injuries that may arise from a nervous, skittish and reactive equine partner. The path to achieving a cooperative partnership rests on fostering mutual respect and understanding.

It is important to dispel the misconception that relaxation equates to a lack of energy or motivation in horses. On the contrary, a relaxed horse remains engaged and attentive, while displaying a remarkable ability to respond to our cues. Striking the delicate balance between relaxation and energy ensures that our horses are neither lethargic nor excessively spirited, contributing to a harmonious partnership. Focus and effort with relaxation is the key to unlocking forwardness and relaxation and swing under saddle and the goal of the groundwork principles of the holistic equestrian.

In the aforementioned YouTube video, esteemed trainers illuminate the advantages of training for relaxation. They showcase a variety of techniques and exercises designed to help horses achieve a state of calm and sustain it throughout the training process. From desensitization exercises to groundwork and riding techniques, this video offers valuable insights into the significance of relaxation as the cornerstone of a safe and fulfilling partnership with your horse.

Our goal in training for relaxation, rather than pursuing submission, plays a pivotal role in creating a safe and enjoyable experience with our horses. By prioritizing trust, effective communication, and a calm state of mind, we build a profound bond with our equine companions. The YouTube video mentioned in this blog post serves as a practical resource, providing guidance and tangible demonstrations to aid us in our quest to train for relaxation. Remember, a relaxed horse is a content and cooperative horse, ensuring both our safety and enjoyment during our rides.

How to speak horse

In the realm of horsemanship, a subtle yet profound dialogue unfolds between the human and the horse. It's a conversation that transcends words, a connection built upon trust, understanding, and skillful communication.

But have you ever wondered if your communication with your horse is truly clear, intentional, and strategic?

And equally important, are you attuned to your horse's attempts at communication?

These questions lie at the heart of the intricate challenge of training, where intentional shaping plans and a shared vocabulary become the keys to success.

At the core of effective training lies the concept that clarity is kindness.

Imagine this scenario: you're learning a new skill, and your instructor's guidance constantly changes. One day they're praising your progress, and the next they're critiquing your approach. Confusion sets in, eroding your confidence in their teaching. Horses, like us, thrive on consistency. When we communicate with them in a clear and unambiguous manner, we offer them a sense of security and a foundation upon which to build their skills.

Intentional Shaping Plans

This brings us to the concept of intentional shaping plans. Just as a sculptor carves a masterpiece from a block of stone, intentional shaping involves crafting desired behaviours and skills in your horse through a series of deliberate steps. These steps build upon one another, creating a vocabulary that both you and your horse understand.

This process isn't about imposing your will on the horse; rather, it's a collaborative effort where each small achievement contributes to a complex set of skills.

However, there's a crucial cautionary tale here. Imagine if your sculptor constantly changed their tools, approach, and vision mid-way through their creation. The result? An unfinished and confusing masterpiece.

The same holds true in training. Consistency in your approach is vital. Changing your teaching methods sporadically only serves to muddle your horse's understanding. Their confidence in your leadership falters as they struggle to decipher your ever-changing cues. As trainers, we must be as consistent as we expect our horses to be.

Developing Your “Horse Speak”

As the saying goes, communication is a two-way street. Just as you're working to communicate your intentions clearly, your horse is expressing its needs and emotions through subtle cues.

Understanding your horse's language is an art that requires attention, empathy, and time. A flick of the tail, a shift in posture, or a change in breathing – these are all ways horses communicate their thoughts and feelings. Developing this sensitivity not only enhances your training but also strengthens the bond between you and your equine partner.

The concept of strategic layering of cues is the third pillar of the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. Just as a symphony is composed of distinct musical notes, horsemanship is built upon a sequence of cues that, when woven together, create a harmonious partnership built on communication.

Starting with simple cues and gradually introducing more complex ones ensures that your horse doesn't become overwhelmed. This strategic approach respects the horse's learning curve and fosters a sense of accomplishment, bolstering their trust in you as a capable leader.

In the age of quick fixes and instant gratification, the art of patient and intentional training might seem counterintuitive. But true horsemanship isn't a race; it's a journey of mutual growth. By embracing clarity, intentionality, and strategy, you're not only creating a skilled equine partner but also nurturing a relationship built on respect and trust.

The language of horsemanship is one that spans species – a language of subtlety, consistency, and unwavering connection.

How will you guide the behaviour?

How are you going to guide the behaviour?

I think as adults this is the biggest challenge of the equestrian, especially if the only tool you have is negative reinforce/pressure release.

Why?

Because when you are using pressure/release, you are using an aversive that the horse finds uncomfortable, scary or painful that can easily escalate into positive punishment to guide the behaviour and the release of it to motivate the horse to do it again.

That means the working relationship requires the horse to be a little bit scared and uncomfortable. And we know that that is the worst place for the horse to learn from and does not build trust and confidence.

Kids, however, are really good at this. They are happy to just sit in the problem and experiment with lots of different things and aren't scared of doing it wrong. (Because they are always doing everything wrong). They come up with all sorts of ingenious ideas for non-verbal communication of how we could guide the horse into a new behaviour. And some of the ways are way better than the traditional way it is taught.

This is why I also love watching clicker trainers and r+ trainers. They come up with so many fun ways to guide behaviours that work so much better - because you can't just escalate pressure and make the horse do it.

How are you guiding your horses behaviour?

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4 Things your horses want when riding

Riding a horse is a beautiful experience that brings horse and rider together in perfect harmony. As riders, understanding how to set your horse up for success is pivotal developing an harmonious relationship under saddle. Your horse is always talking to you, you just might not like what you hear or lack confidence in how to navigate the conversation to resolve the behaviour. Developing a deep sense of trust and respect for each other and a positive riding experience helps to create a relationship where the horse enjoys learning and asks to be ridden. We have identified 4 key pillars to establishing enthusiastic, consenting and congruent riding.

1. Balance is Key

One of the most crucial aspects of riding is maintaining a balance, both within the horse and the rider. This affect we have on the horses balance both on them carrying us and the application of the bit to the mouth is significantly unrecognised and results in not only a lot of the behavioural issues we see like bucking, bolting and rearing but also the long soundness issues like kissing spine, navicular disease and bridle lameness. Horses rely on the rider to be well-balanced to support their movements effectively. When you are balanced, your horse feels more at ease, allowing them to move with relaxation, swing and impulsion. Developing a stable lower leg and understanding how to balance over it minimises issues like balancing on the horses mouth and landing heavy on the horses back. These 2 lessons are the foundational work for everything else we do in the saddle. Without balance our horse is always trying to catch, lean or balance against us.

Check out the youtube video for how we teach this.

2. Trust and Respect

Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship, and this holds true in your relationship with your horse. Horses are incredibly perceptive creatures, and they can sense your emotions and intentions. Earning your horse's trust and respect is a gradual process that involves consistent and patient interaction.

Approach your horse calmly and confidently, avoiding sudden movements or loud noises that might startle them. Respect their personal space and boundaries, understanding that each horse has its comfort zone. When your horse trusts you, they will be more willing to cooperate, making the ride smoother and more enjoyable for both of you.

While this may sound obvious it is something we forget as adults. When we have the to do list, the grocery list, the conversation with the boss swirling around in our head as we approach our horse the see the angst, frustration and irritation radiating from us. They say no thank you! Find your internal sanctuary before engaging with your horse will guarantee you a more harmonious ride. And if you can’t find it, just spend time hanging out with your horse. They are more than happy to help us find it when we don’t come in with an agenda.

3. Clear Communication

Horses communicate primarily through body language and respond well to clear and concise cues from their rider. Your horse wants you to be a confident and effective communicator during the ride. They often require way more direction than the rider gives to have confidence to move with relaxation, swing and impulsion. Quite often when I’m teaching I will see the horses looking to me unsure what to do. This is a great cue to me that the rider isn’t doing enough to communicate to the horse what they want from them and reminder that not all resistance is work evasion. A lot of it is simply confusion. Other ways it shows up is as the horse jacking up, napping and refusing to move, the speed getting faster and faster until the horse is out of control, spooking seemingly out of nowhere and the horse actively evading and doing things like running into the walls or trees.

It is important to develop a layering and a mental scaffolding for you and the horse as we teach in the holistic horse rider program for how you will combine the aids in complexity to move up the training scale. For example, how does your horse differentiate between a halt aid, half halt and a frame aid? This needs to be strategically developed because your horse doesn’t just innately know, someone has to teach them and the can’t read the text book!

4. Regular Breaks and Care

While a lot of us want to go fast, jump high and gallop through the paddock with the wind blowing through your hair, the slow work is crucial for you and your horses success. This is where we do the cuing and language building to create that mental scaffolding for the horse and rider to develop more complex aids. This is where the horse learns to organise its body better for turns and lateral movements. This is where the rider returns to organise their balance, coordination and communication. We can also use these walk breaks to mark task achievement for our horse so that they are more willing to effort again.

Why would your horse want to perform at their best effort? When we are looking at endurance and stamina we are looking at a lower energy expense over a longer period of time versus maximum efforts to build more muscle to hold the body with more integrity. We are looking to balance the 2. We don’t want the horse to be so exhausted it can’t hold its body well because it will break down in to compensatory movement patterns and inevitable go lame. Every time you do a half halt should be a squat effort for your horse and every time you allow to stretch, pick up into contact and go into an upward transition, grid or pole work should be a like a push up. We are looking to isolate and build specific muscle groups in training as well as cross train for endurance and stamina, suppleness and strength.

After the ride, take the time to groom and care for your horse. Grooming not only helps maintain their coat and health but also fosters a deeper connection between you and your equine companion. It's a perfect opportunity to check for any signs of discomfort or injury and address them promptly.

Being in tune with your horse's needs while riding is the key to a successful and enjoyable partnership. By being balanced, building trust, communicating effectively, and caring for your horse's well-being, you create a positive and rewarding riding experience for both of you. Remember that every horse is unique, so take the time to understand your horse's individual preferences and personality. This understanding will strengthen your bond and lead to many unforgettable rides together.

So, next time you saddle up, keep these four things in mind, and you'll be amazed at the difference it makes in your horse's happiness and your overall riding experience.

The difference between reactive and responsive behaviors

Horses are incredible animals with a unique way of communicating. 

As Holistic Equestrians, we have to learn to read their body language and listen to their cues to understand what they are trying to tell us. One of the essential aspects of understanding our horses is learning to differentiate between reactive and responsive behaviours.

But how can you tell?

Reactive Behaviours

Reactive behaviours are instinctual and automatic responses to stimuli. These behaviours are not always conscious and are often related to the horse's survival instincts. 

For example, a horse may react to a loud noise by spooking or bolting because it perceives the sound as a threat. The startle reflex is a reflex and they have no control over that response. We can also antagonise our horses with pressure in training to the point of overwhelm and fear where they are no longer in control of their behaviour. They are reacting to the stress in the best way they know how. 

Reactive behaviours are often exaggerated and out of proportion to the actual stimulus, and they can be dangerous for both the horse and rider.

 Responsive Behaviours

On the other hand, responsive behaviours are thoughtful and intentional actions that horses take in response to a cue from the rider or handler. These behaviours require the horse to think and consider the situation before acting. 

For example, a horse may respond to a leg aid by moving sideways or picking up the trot. Horses will also use intentional behaviours to try and communicate things with us like nudging us with their nose, stomping their hooves and nipping at us. 

It's essential to understand the difference between reactive and responsive behaviours because they require different approaches from the rider or handler. 

When a horse displays reactive behaviour, it is triggering a stress response in the horse. While we want our horse to have resilience to stress, we want to wire in a more appropriate response. If the horse is left to its own devices to figure out how to deal with the stress we have put on them, especially if we haven’t built a relationship with our horse, they often give big explosive behaviours. Trying to force a reactive horse into submission can escalate the situation and cause the horse to become more escalated because a horse that can’t control its emotions, can’t control its behaviour.

When a horse gives a responsive behaviour in response to an ask, it is important that we see their answer to our ask and reward, praise or show some form of thank you and reciprocity for the effort. This keeps our horse from going sour on the ask, and allows for an open 2 way dialogue between horse and rider/handler. When there is reciprocity in a relationship there is more congruence with the asks. Trust is built between the horse and rider or handler and evolves into confidence. #holisticequestrian!

As Holistic Equestrians, it's our responsibility to create an environment where our horses can be responsive rather than reactive. This means:

• setting the horse up for success by providing clear and consistent cues, 

• ensuring that the horse is comfortable and relaxed, and 

• being patient. 

When we incorporate our compassionate leadership tools of reciprocity and congruence, it's rare for resistance to be presented as evasion of work.

What we are trying to do is engage our horse to be an active participant in their learning and training. Cuing, developing aids and building out communication is a very mentally taxing exercise and part of training is their ability to learn and get answers wrong without frustration or fear of punishment. The ability to concentrate and hold focus for a whole hour during a lesson is also taxing on the brain (I have a lot of human students that can’t do this). So what we are doing is stretching the mental capacity of the horse, emotional agility to stay engaged in a positive work ethic for an extended period of time as well as physical condition for the work. 

When we can be considerate of our horses needs for this we significantly deescalate reactive behaviours because our horse has trust and confidence in our ability to support these needs. 

How well can you read your horse's behaviour? Can you tell the difference between a reactive behaviour due to the horse being scared, overwhelmed, in pain and at the point of threshold where they are no longer in control of their behaviour and a responsive behaviour which is a controlled body language trying to communicate needs? How confidently can you read these behaviours? 

Understanding these body languages and differences are the foundation of our holistic horse handling approach to horsemanship so that you can choose based on your horse's needs what the best tool is to use to actively engage your horse in training and how to best support them in the training process and resilience to stress.

Why do we get so frustrated with foundation work?

Sometimes we get stuck in the foundation work. Sometimes we get stuck in the foundation work for a long time!

🚷Sometimes this can be because we're frustrated we're here again and want to be moving forward.

🚫Sometimes we're stuck here because we need to learn the same lesson but on a deeper level and put up a mental block because "we already know that".

🚫Sometimes we are stuck on a foundation because the truth of the learning is tied into a core trauma we're not ready to work through.

Whatever the why is, you want to fall in love with the process of revisiting the foundations... Even if you hate it.

Because regardless of who you are, where you are, you are always going to be revisiting foundations.

Foundations are what makes "good" riders into great equestrians.

Compassionate Leadership and Communication

Horses have so much incredible wisdom to teach us.

I've spent countless hours, night and day exploring different theories with them in movement, emotion, mental capacity and relationship.

But so many equestrians get lost in the submission based power over dynamic and confused that they forget to learn from the horse and think all the wisdom comes from the trainer.

The best a trainer or coach can do is give the tools to communicate. It is up to you, the handler, to use them as communication. This is what separates us from bullying handlers and compassionate leaders.

I often watch students ride the mechanical actions forgetting that they are supposed to be talking to the horse.

"Remember when you use that inside leg and guiding rein you are asking you horse to move out your not just kicking and pulling"

I had a new student start with us and she could assume all the postures but she didn't know how to use them to talk to the horse. She had trained western and knew how to get her shoulders back and her seat deep, but she was still holding tension in her lower back - the tension that communicates “go fast”. It took me a bit to figure out what was happening. Rabbit was being uncharacteristically hard to stop and we had to go through the embodiment of what it is to cease action, not just assume the posture of the cue.

Another lesson, another student - this time struggling to keep the horse trotting. Knowing this horse I asked her what was going on in her body that was making her scared - I couldn't see the typical fear cues after a lifetime of masking, they're a lot easier to read in kids. But I knew that's why Hunter wasn't able to stay trotting.

She admitted how scared she was of the horses and we had to have a conversation about whether she even wanted to ride. Good news - we confirmed yes, but that she needed more say in when she moved into the next pace, instead of the horse reading my own liberty cues.

(To clarify, I work the beginners at liberty so the horses are taking cues off me until the riders are clear enough to communicate. This helps to keep the horses sensitive and not need excessive pressure for work.)

So we spent the lesson experimenting with more activity and less activity in her body. How she could use her body to speed up and slow down the horse. Her body relaxed, softened and followed the horse and started communicating more clearly. Hunter relaxed, softened and started taking cues better.

Compassionate leadership and communication is a discussion we are having in the arena regularly.

If the horses start looking to me for guidance, the student isn't giving enough direction for the horse to be clear and confident in what is expected of it. And Holistic Riders not just mechanically engaging in “pushing buttons” by applying a cue, we are developing language and relationships. Relationship to us, to learning, to movement, to themselves.

Compassionate leadership is necessary for understanding how to use communication tools with your horse, and to build your own confidence.

Compassionate Leadership is a skillset that is so important, we dedicate an entire module to it inside the Holistic Horse Handling Program - click the button below to join the waitlist!

You should know how to use treats appropriately

Every horse owner should know how to use treats appropriately...

FULL STOP.

I don't care if your horse mugs you. That's the point. Literally for the first lesson of using treats is to ask your horse not to mug you.

Your horse is so incredibly motivated by treats it will learn all the emotional agility skills it will need under saddle:

• How to manage not knowing the answer,

• How to deal with frustration,

• What to do when they lose interest or focus.

It doesn’t matter if you're scared or uncomfortable. That's the point. Literally the first lesson of using treats is working with protected contact. So both you and your horse are safe and if your horse is getting frustrated or agitated. That's the point. You can calmly work through your emotions together without it escalating to conflict because you're scared of getting hurt.

So many problems with your horse can be resolved just by learning how to use treats. Not because the horse needs to be bribed to learn, but because the horse owner has a lot - like a ridiculous amount!! - to learn when it comes to speaking horse. And horses don't like us practicing how to ask them what to do with whips that escalate to positive punishment when there's a communication breakdown.

So when people ask about why we use treats inside our Holistic Horse Handling Program, it’s not about bribing your horse, or being “soft”.

It’s about helping our students understand and communicate with their horses better.

If you are interested in communicating with you horse better, join the waitlist for the next round of enrolments of the Holistic Horse Handling Program

The Holistic Horse Handling Program WORKS!

We have spent the last 2 years putting our holistic horse handling skills in to practice with real working horses in a riding school environment that requires good, safe, confident horses that know how to look after their riders.

And it works

It works so well that even when I'm lost in a rabbit hole with a horse that has an issue and I don't know where to start, I go back to our holistic horse handling principles.

And you know why it works?

The horses helped shape it.

By giving horses

• consent,

• choice,

• language,

• ways to share their tension holding patterns,

• ways to ask for support when unsure, stressed or in pain, and

• permission to stop and self regulate when coming up in nervous tension,

They have helped us shape how to use these tools as a way to support them as a working horse, willing, engaged with a positive work ethic.

We've instilled boundaries, held accountability, lost students who weren't prepared to do the work, supported students who have found putting the horse before their personal goals challenging. Demanded and expected our students to care about these horses and what they give and sacrifice to support so many different riders in their equestrian careers.

When I started working at the riding school when I was just starting out 18 years ago, we used to pick the horses up from the doggers and rehab, retrain and integrate the horses into the school. Over time they would gain soundness of mind, body and emotion, be able to take on greener and less balanced horses and eventually they would get paired up with a student and be a students first horse. I will never deny a school horse a family and loving forever home.

And that's where the journey started and this is where we are returning home to. With more sound practices, more education and more practice.

So if you're looking for a light to shine down the tunnel, a community of equestrians that get it and have overcome more hurdles and challenges than you can think of and a framework to help navigate these challenges that brings your and your horse closer together, make sure you check out our Holistic Horse Handling Program.

What makes Equestrian Movement different?

Some of you have been with us for a while, and a number of you are meeting us for the first time (hi there, by the way!).

For those who are new to us, I bet you are wondering what sets us apart. Perhaps it was something you saw on youtube, something we shared on a podcast - or maybe one of our fans sent you in our direction. So you are probably wondering if we are all that different to other horse trainers out there.

And I understand that question. As equestrians we are surrounded by so many opinions that it can be daunting to know which way to turn, let alone if it sits right with you. So I will share with you the biggest thing that sets us apart.

Our horses help teach us (and our students), not just we train horses

It may sound weird, but what better way to learn how to work with horses is there then to be guided by the horse itself? How can you engage if your communication is on point, if not by the horse? How can you tell if your horse is enjoying time with you, if not from the horse?

How can you build a connection deep rooted in trust, confidence and affection, if not with the horse?

So we allow our horses to be active participants in their learning. We teach our Holistic Equestrians how to read their own horse and facilitate their learning path.

No human is the same. No horse is the same. When we allow our horses to express engagement, worry, excitement, and sometimes a plain old “no”, we can look more at the tools we are taught to use and understand how to use them better for that horse.

And it’s an amazing way to build a relationship with a 500kg+ animal that will then want to look after us and keep us safe.

If you want to know more about the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology we teach at Equestrian Movement, sign up for the Stronger Bond Workshop - a 100% free sneak peak at what we teach.

Have you lost your nerve with your horse?

It's a feeling that many equestrians can relate to—the loss of nerve or fear when working with our horses. Whether it's due to a past accident, a lack of confidence, or simply the unpredictable nature of these magnificent creatures, it's a challenge that can hinder our progress and the development of a strong bond. But fear not! In this episode, we'll explore the experiences of overcoming fear and share strategies for building a stronger connection with your horse.

Embracing Vulnerability:

As an equestrian, it's crucial to acknowledge that fear and nerves are a natural part of our journey. In fact, even the most experienced riders have faced moments of doubt. By openly acknowledging our vulnerability, we can create a safe space to address and overcome our fears. Sharing personal stories of lost nerve can foster a sense of community and empower others to confront their own apprehensions.

Reflecting on Past Experiences:

During the episode, we'll delve into various instances where fear took hold and threatened to derail the relationship with our horses. Sharing these experiences allows us to reflect on the root causes of our fear and the impact it has on our interactions. By examining these past experiences, we can gain valuable insights and identify patterns or triggers that contribute to our loss of nerve.

Developing a Growth Mindset:

Overcoming fear requires a shift in mindset from one of limitation to one of growth. By adopting a growth mindset, we recognize that our fears are not insurmountable barriers but rather opportunities for personal development. We'll discuss techniques such as positive self-talk, visualization, and setting achievable goals that can help us develop resilience and regain confidence in our abilities as riders.

Seeking Support and Professional Guidance:

In the journey to overcome fear, seeking support is crucial. We'll emphasize the importance of connecting with like-minded individuals who understand the challenges we face. Additionally, professional guidance from experienced trainers or equine therapists can provide invaluable tools and techniques tailored to our specific needs. The episode will highlight the benefits of participating in workshops and training programs designed to strengthen the bond between horse and rider.

Building Trust and Communication:

Central to overcoming fear is the establishment of trust and effective communication with our horses. We'll explore techniques for building trust, such as ground exercises, desensitization, and liberty work. Understanding the horse's body language and subtle cues enables us to communicate more effectively and build a stronger bond based on mutual understanding and respect.

Losing nerve or feeling scared around horses is a common challenge faced by equestrians at various stages of their journey. However, it's important to remember that fear doesn't define us as riders. In this episode, we've delved into personal experiences and strategies for overcoming fear, emphasizing the significance of vulnerability, reflection, growth mindset, support, and trust-building techniques.

By actively working on our fears and strengthening our bond with our horses, we open ourselves up to a world of endless possibilities. Remember, progress may take time, but with determination and the right mindset, we can conquer our fears and forge a deep, lasting connection with our equine companions.

To take the next step in improving your connection with your horse, be sure to sign up for our upcoming "Stronger Bond Workshop." Together, let's overcome our fears and build an unbreakable bond with these majestic creatures that inspire and challenge us every day.

Mind Your Manners

"mind your manners"

This is a lesson that we teach inside our Holistic Horse Handling Program.

Not because we think horses understand manners but because humans do. It's easier to teach a human when you have an analogy they can reference that makes sense.

Like when I'm teaching half halts I reference balancing yourself running down a hill and doing a gear change. Not because horses are a car and you are doing a gear change or because they are running down a hill but because it's easier for the rider to understand the very complex theory of the half halt by referencing something they already experience and know how to do.

So mind your manners is a lesson, but we aren’t teaching the horse manners or respect. We need to be a little less literal to allow our own understanding.

But this is the problem we have with the word “respect” in the horse industry.

Wanting a horse to give you respect is up to your interpretation, experience of and perception of respect.

A lot of people who haven't been in leadership or mentoring roles see respect as being the boss of something, ruling with an iron fist, punishment, forcing the will of another. I grew up "fighting against the man" (whoever the man was) and maybe ever experienced punishment for not respecting your elders. (Honestly this one is so ingrained that even when my son questions me now I have to catch myself)

But the kind of influence over another that you NEED during challenging and demanding times is so deeply rooted in trust and confidence you - not through power over, submission based control.

I see respect as something that is earnt by having your horse watch how you work, engage with them and support them through challenges.

I actively structure my training processes with the horses to just gently stretch their comfort zone and support them overcoming it because it can fast track that confidence and trust building.

You want to support your horse to over come something they find hard and challenging to build their confidence in following your lead and direction

What most horse people do is stretch their own comfort zone and overface themselves and therefore their horse, so their horse is responsible for getting them safely through the challenge. Which is how we lose “respect” from our horse. Asking them to do something we can't do and when they say I don't think you’re ready, forcing them to do it anyway with negative reinforcement (aka get the big whacky stick out and escalate pressure until you get a response, find out the response you got is not the one you want get scared, back off and reinforce to your horse that if they don't want to do something all they need to do is do the big scary thing that made you back off) is an almost instantaneous way to lose that “respect”.

Having respect for a leader is because of their ability to lead, not their ability to flex their power or strength. This is called Compassionate Leadership.

We are digging deeper into Compassionate Leadership in our upcoming Stronger Bond Workshop - reserve your seat below!